Tammy Scalfani - Revision history

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	'''Tammy Jean Scalfani''' (''née'' '''Flanders'''; born 17 July 1973) is the wife, special-needs carer and primary enabler of [[Jack Scalfani]], and the mother of [[Jack Scalfani II]]. Tammy is the daughter of [[Carolyn and Donn Flanders]].		'''Tammy Jean Scalfani''' (''née'' '''Flanders'''; born 17 July 1973) is the wife, special-needs carer and primary enabler of [[Jack Scalfani]], and the mother of [[Jack Scalfani II]]. Tammy is the daughter of [[Flanders family\|Carolyn and Donn Flanders]].

	She did not appear much during the first years of ~~the~~ [[Cooking with Jack ~~(Youtube series)~~\|show]], but later played a bigger role both on the ~~[[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|~~main show]] and [[Jack on the Go~~\|''Jack on the Go~~'']] as the camerawoman and taste-tester. After Jack's ~~fourth~~ [[~~Jack and health\|~~stroke]] which rendered his right dominant arm useless, Tammy has played a vital role in Jack's everyday functions and often on the show she has to mix, chop and dice ingredients, lift heavy pans, and pour liquids for him.		She did not appear much during the first years of [[Cooking with Jack\|the show]], but later played a bigger role both on the main show and ''[[Jack on the Go]]'' as the camerawoman and taste-tester. After Jack's [[fourth stroke]] which rendered his right dominant arm useless, Tammy has played a vital role in Jack's everyday functions and often on the show she has to mix, chop and dice ingredients, lift heavy pans, and pour liquids for him.

	==Early life==		==Early life==
	Tammy Flanders was born 17 July 1973 in Tennessee. She moved to Los Angeles sometime during the late 80s and worked as an accountant at several different firms; often holding the title of accountant manager. Not much other information is known about Tammy's life before Jack.		Tammy Flanders was born 17 July 1973 in Tennessee. She moved to Los Angeles sometime during the late 80s and worked as an accountant at several different firms; often holding the title of accountant manager. Not much other information is known about Tammy's life before Jack.

	==Education==		===Education===
	Tammy enrolled in university to obtain a Master of Business Administration (MBA) in order to support Jack's unemployment and his fanciful aspirations of achieving stardom.		Tammy enrolled in university to obtain a Master of Business Administration (MBA) in order to support Jack's unemployment and his fanciful aspirations of achieving stardom.

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	However, a search on the degree mill website [https://www.buydiplomaonline.com/california-closed-colleges-and-universities/ BuyDiplomaOnline] reveals that the Irvine College of Business closed in 1996, contrary to Tammy's LinkedIn profile, which states that she attended the institution from 1993 to 1997. As a result, Tammy may have obtained a fake degree, lied about her qualifications, or simply does not recall her own educational history.		However, a search on the degree mill website [https://www.buydiplomaonline.com/california-closed-colleges-and-universities/ BuyDiplomaOnline] reveals that the Irvine College of Business closed in 1996, contrary to Tammy's LinkedIn profile, which states that she attended the institution from 1993 to 1997. As a result, Tammy may have obtained a fake degree, lied about her qualifications, or simply does not recall her own educational history.

	~~== Career ==~~
	~~''Under construction''~~

	==Relationship with Jack==		==Relationship with Jack==
	[[File:Jack-tammy-marriage.jpg\|thumb\|Jack and Tammy getting married in tacky Western apparel.]]		[[File:Jack-tammy-marriage.jpg\|thumb\|250px\|Jack and Tammy getting married in tacky Western apparel.]]

	=== Meeting ===		===Meeting===
	According to Jack, in May 1992, he saw Tammy working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently a "sucker for baby faces," would repeatedly return to the bowling alley while Tammy was working to ask her out on a date. Eventually realizing that Jack ~~wasn't~~ going to give up, she conceded and agreed to go on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		According to Jack, in May 1992, he saw Tammy working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently a "sucker for baby faces," would repeatedly return to the bowling alley while Tammy was working to ask her out on a date. Eventually realizing that Jack was not going to give up, she conceded and agreed to go on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

	=== First ~~Date~~ ===		===First date===
	For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. Jack was sick with a fever of 104° but was so desperate for a rebound after the failure of his previous marriage, he fought through it; a feat he is greatly proud of<ref>https://youtu.be/dSDkQPcI7D8?t=3995</ref>. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.		For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. Jack was sick with a fever of 104° but was so desperate for a rebound after the failure of his previous marriage, he fought through it; a feat he is greatly proud of<ref>https://youtu.be/dSDkQPcI7D8?t=3995</ref>. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.

	The show playing that night was "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		The show playing that night was Anything Goes, and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

	=== Marriage ===		===Marriage===
	The early stages of their relationship are marked by unclear and conflicting circumstances. It remains uncertain what attracted Tammy to Jack, who had previously [[Garrett Scalfani\|made his own child homeless]]. It is possible that Jack withheld these details from Tammy, or she may have been indifferent to them.		The early stages of their relationship are marked by unclear and conflicting circumstances. It remains uncertain what attracted Tammy to Jack, who had previously [[Garrett Scalfani\|made his own child homeless]]. It is possible that Jack withheld these details from Tammy, or she may have been indifferent to them.

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	In 2000, they welcomed their son, [[Jack Scalfani II]].		In 2000, they welcomed their son, [[Jack Scalfani II]].

			==Gallery==
			<gallery mode=nolines>
			File:That one Tammy pic.jpg\|The original version of that one picture of Tammy used everywhere, before it was photoshopped to hell and back.
			File:Tammy blicky.png\|Tammy apparently carries a purple blicky.
			</gallery>

	==References==		==References==

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	'''Tammy Jean Scalfani''' (''née'' '''Flanders'''; born 17 July 1973) is the wife, special-needs carer and primary enabler of [[Jack Scalfani]] and the mother of [[Jack Scalfani II]]. Tammy is the daughter of [[Carolyn Flanders]] ~~and Donn R. Flanders II~~.		'''Tammy Jean Scalfani''' (''née'' '''Flanders'''; born 17 July 1973) is the wife, special-needs carer and primary enabler of [[Jack Scalfani]], and the mother of [[Jack Scalfani II]]. Tammy is the daughter of [[Carolyn and Donn Flanders]].

	She did not appear much during the first years of the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|show]], but later played a bigger role both on the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|main show]] and [[Jack on the Go\|''Jack on the Go'']] as the camerawoman and taste-tester. After Jack's fourth [[Jack and health\|stroke]] which rendered his right dominant arm useless, Tammy has played a vital role in Jack's everyday functions and often on the show she has to mix, chop and dice ingredients, lift heavy pans, and pour liquids for him.		She did not appear much during the first years of the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|show]], but later played a bigger role both on the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|main show]] and [[Jack on the Go\|''Jack on the Go'']] as the camerawoman and taste-tester. After Jack's fourth [[Jack and health\|stroke]] which rendered his right dominant arm useless, Tammy has played a vital role in Jack's everyday functions and often on the show she has to mix, chop and dice ingredients, lift heavy pans, and pour liquids for him.

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	'''Tammy Jean Scalfani''' (''née'' '''Flanders'''; born 17 July 1973) is the wife, carer and primary enabler of [[Jack Scalfani]] and the mother of [[Jack Scalfani II]]. Tammy is the daughter of [[Carolyn Flanders]] and Donn R. Flanders II.		'''Tammy Jean Scalfani''' (''née'' '''Flanders'''; born 17 July 1973) is the wife, special-needs carer and primary enabler of [[Jack Scalfani]] and the mother of [[Jack Scalfani II]]. Tammy is the daughter of [[Carolyn Flanders]] and Donn R. Flanders II.

	She did not appear much during the first years of the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|show]], but later played a bigger role both on the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|main show]] and [[Jack on the Go\|''Jack on the Go'']] as the camerawoman and taste-tester. After Jack's ~~third~~ [[Jack and health\|stroke]] which rendered his right dominant arm useless, Tammy has played a vital role in Jack's everyday functions and often on the show she has to mix, chop and dice ingredients, lift heavy pans, and pour liquids for him.		She did not appear much during the first years of the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|show]], but later played a bigger role both on the [[Cooking with Jack (Youtube series)\|main show]] and [[Jack on the Go\|''Jack on the Go'']] as the camerawoman and taste-tester. After Jack's fourth [[Jack and health\|stroke]] which rendered his right dominant arm useless, Tammy has played a vital role in Jack's everyday functions and often on the show she has to mix, chop and dice ingredients, lift heavy pans, and pour liquids for him.

	==Early life==		==Early life==

Jack Vlogs: /* First Date */

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First Date

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	=== First Date ===		=== First Date ===
	For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. Jack was sick with a fever of ~~104~~ but was so desperate for a rebound after the failure of his previous marriage, he fought through it; a feat he is greatly proud of<ref>https://youtu.be/dSDkQPcI7D8?t=3995</ref>. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.		For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. Jack was sick with a fever of 104° but was so desperate for a rebound after the failure of his previous marriage, he fought through it; a feat he is greatly proud of<ref>https://youtu.be/dSDkQPcI7D8?t=3995</ref>. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.

	The show playing that night was "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		The show playing that night was "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

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	=== First Date ===		=== First Date ===
	For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.		For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. Jack was sick with a fever of 104 but was so desperate for a rebound after the failure of his previous marriage, he fought through it; a feat he is greatly proud of<ref>https://youtu.be/dSDkQPcI7D8?t=3995</ref>. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.

	The show playing that night was "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		The show playing that night was "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

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	=== Meeting ===		=== Meeting ===
	According to Jack, in May 1992, ~~Jack~~ saw Tammy working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently ~~was~~ a "sucker for baby ~~face~~" ~~and~~ would repeatedly return to the bowling ~~ally~~ while Tammy was working to ~~request~~ a date ~~from her~~. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and ~~went~~ on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		According to Jack, in May 1992, he saw Tammy working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently a "sucker for baby faces," would repeatedly return to the bowling alley while Tammy was working to ask her out on a date. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and agreed to go on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

	=== First Date ===		=== First Date ===
	For their first date Jack ~~invites~~ Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a ~~now defunct~~ theatre and dinner show room - presumably located ~~somewhere~~ in or around Orange County, California. When Tammy ~~arrives~~ she is ready to leave immediately ~~and is~~ only ~~prepared~~ to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she ~~nopes out~~. However Jack ~~reveals~~ himself to her over the microphone, with a loud "BABE!" At ~~this point in time~~ Tammy had only seen Jack wearing a hat, ~~and 25 years later Tammy can still distantly remember her shock at seeing~~ how bald ~~Jack~~ was without his hat on for the first time.		For their first date, Jack invited Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a theatre and dinner show room that is no longer operational, presumably located in or around Orange County, California. When Tammy arrived, she was ready to leave immediately, only willing to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she decided to leave. However, Jack revealed himself to her over the microphone with a loud "BABE!" At that moment, Tammy, who had only seen Jack wearing a hat before, was shocked to see how bald he was without his hat for the first time, a memory she still recalls distinctly 25 years later.

	The show playing that night ~~happens to be~~ "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date Jack ~~complains~~ about the meal ~~they eat complaining about~~ dry chicken and ~~demanding~~ Tammy "review" the ~~Sour Cream~~ - a ~~trend~~ that would continue to ~~structure~~ the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		The show playing that night was "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date, Jack complained about the meal, criticizing the dry chicken and insisting that Tammy "review" the sour cream - a pattern that would continue to shape the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

	=== Marriage ===		=== Marriage ===
	The ~~circumstances~~ of their relationship ~~in its early stages~~ are unclear and conflicting. It ~~is unknown~~ what ~~drew~~ Tammy to Jack, [[Garrett Scalfani\|~~who had~~ made his own child homeless]]. It is possible that Jack ~~kept~~ these details from Tammy, or ~~that~~ she ~~simply did not care about~~ them.		The early stages of their relationship are marked by unclear and conflicting circumstances. It remains uncertain what attracted Tammy to Jack, who had previously [[Garrett Scalfani\|made his own child homeless]]. It is possible that Jack withheld these details from Tammy, or she may have been indifferent to them.

	Shortly after ~~meeting~~, Tammy ~~brought~~ Jack to ~~Christ~~ and ~~soon~~ the ~~pair~~ married on 29 ~~August~~ 1998 in ~~a gaudy~~ Western-themed wedding, ~~funded~~ entirely by Tammy's family. Jack and Tammy ~~both~~ wore ~~cheap~~ "Colombian Drug Lord" chic ~~wedding rings~~, which lost their ~~luster~~ in 2015 and ~~had to be re-dipped~~.		Shortly after they met, Tammy introduced Jack to her faith, and the couple married on August 29, 1998, in an extravagantly Western-themed wedding, financed entirely by Tammy's family. Both Jack and Tammy wore inexpensive wedding rings styled in what could be described as "Colombian Drug Lord" chic, which lost their shine in 2015 and required redipping.

	In 2000, ~~she gave birth to~~ [[Jack Scalfani II]].		In 2000, they welcomed their son, [[Jack Scalfani II]].

	==References==		==References==

Jack Vlogs: /* Relationship with Jack */

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Relationship with Jack

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	=== Meeting ===		=== Meeting ===
	According to Jack, in May 1992, Tammy ~~was seen by Jack~~ working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently was a "~~Sucker~~ for baby face" and would repeatedly return to the bowling ally while Tammy was working to request a date from her. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and went on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		According to Jack, in May 1992, Jack saw Tammy working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently was a "sucker for baby face" and would repeatedly return to the bowling ally while Tammy was working to request a date from her. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and went on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

	=== First Date ===		=== First Date ===

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	=== Meeting ===		=== Meeting ===
	According to Jack, in May 1992, Tammy was seen by Jack working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently is a "Sucker for baby face" and would repeatedly return to the bowling ally while Tammy was working to request a date from her. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and went on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		According to Jack, in May 1992, Tammy was seen by Jack working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently was a "Sucker for baby face" and would repeatedly return to the bowling ally while Tammy was working to request a date from her. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and went on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

	=== First Date ===		=== First Date ===
	For their first date Jack invites Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a now defunct theatre and dinner show room - presumably located somewhere in or around Orange County, California. When Tammy arrives she is ready to leave immediately and is only prepared to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she nopes out. However Jack reveals himself to her over the microphone, with a loud "BABE!"		For their first date Jack invites Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a now defunct theatre and dinner show room - presumably located somewhere in or around Orange County, California. When Tammy arrives she is ready to leave immediately and is only prepared to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she nopes out. However Jack reveals himself to her over the microphone, with a loud "BABE!" At this point in time Tammy had only seen Jack wearing a hat, and 25 years later Tammy can still distantly remember her shock at seeing how bald Jack was without his hat on for the first time.

	The show playing that night happens to be "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date Jack complains about the meal they eat complaining about dry chicken and demanding Tammy "review" the Sour Cream - a trend that would continue to structure the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>		The show playing that night happens to be "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date Jack complains about the meal they eat complaining about dry chicken and demanding Tammy "review" the Sour Cream - a trend that would continue to structure the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

Jack Vlogs: /* Relationship with Jack */

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Relationship with Jack

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	==Relationship with Jack==		==Relationship with Jack==
	[[File:Jack-tammy-marriage.jpg\|thumb\|Jack and Tammy getting married in tacky Western apparel.]]		[[File:Jack-tammy-marriage.jpg\|thumb\|Jack and Tammy getting married in tacky Western apparel.]]
	According to Jack, in May 1992, the two met when Tammy called into KIK-FM's late night call-in show, "Loving, Losing or Leaving" which was hosted by Jack from 1990 to 1993.<ref>https://foodfightwrite2014.sched.com/speaker/jackscalfani</ref>

			=== Meeting ===
			According to Jack, in May 1992, Tammy was seen by Jack working at a bowling alley when she was 19. Jack, apparently is a "Sucker for baby face" and would repeatedly return to the bowling ally while Tammy was working to request a date from her. Eventually realizing that Jack wasn't going to give up, she conceded and went on a date with him.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

			=== First Date ===
			For their first date Jack invites Tammy to his job as an MC at Elizabeth Curtain Call, a now defunct theatre and dinner show room - presumably located somewhere in or around Orange County, California. When Tammy arrives she is ready to leave immediately and is only prepared to give Jack five minutes to meet her before she nopes out. However Jack reveals himself to her over the microphone, with a loud "BABE!"

			The show playing that night happens to be "Anything Goes," and even on their very first date Jack complains about the meal they eat complaining about dry chicken and demanding Tammy "review" the Sour Cream - a trend that would continue to structure the next 30 years of their lives.<ref>https://youtu.be/SyJPxp2KI_8</ref>

			=== Marriage ===
	The circumstances of their relationship in its early stages are unclear and conflicting. It is unknown what drew Tammy to Jack, [[Garrett Scalfani\|who had made his own child homeless]]. It is possible that Jack kept these details from Tammy, or that she simply did not care about them.		The circumstances of their relationship in its early stages are unclear and conflicting. It is unknown what drew Tammy to Jack, [[Garrett Scalfani\|who had made his own child homeless]]. It is possible that Jack kept these details from Tammy, or that she simply did not care about them.